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Daring Greatly

by Brene Brown · 2012 · Self-Improvement

Key themes

  • Vulnerability as strength — the courage to be seen
  • Shame and the cultures that use it as a management tool
  • The gap between the armoured life and the wholehearted one

About this book

Why vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness; a warm, research-led argument for showing up.

Published in 2012, Daring Greatly was based on Brown's TED Talk which became one of the most-watched talks in TED's history. Brown is a research professor at the University of Houston who studies shame, courage and vulnerability.

Discussion questions

  1. Brown's central claim is that vulnerability is not weakness but courage — that allowing yourself to be seen is the foundation of meaningful connection. How does she develop this — and where do you find it most and least persuasive?
  2. The distinction between shame (I am bad) and guilt (I did something bad) is central to the book. How does Brown develop this — and how does it translate to daily life?
  3. Brown uses qualitative research — interviews and analysis of stories. How does this method differ from quantitative social science — and does the approach serve her subject?
  4. The book has been criticised for being motivational rather than scientific. How do you engage with this critique — and does the distinction matter for what the book is doing?
  5. Daring Greatly has been used in corporate leadership training, therapy and parenting. What does this wide application say about the ideas — and what might each context miss?

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