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Someone You Can Build a Nest In

by John Wiswell · 2024 · Literary Fiction

Key themes

  • A monster's perspective on romance — taken entirely seriously
  • Hiding your true self from someone you love — made literal
  • Horror tropes inverted — the monster as protagonist, the hunters as the threat

About this book

Shesheshen, a shapeshifting monster who has lived in a ruined keep for centuries, falls in love with Homily, the woman sent by a group of monster-hunters to kill her — and must navigate romance while hiding what she really is. Wiswell's Nebula Award-winning novel is a horror-romance that takes its monster's perspective entirely seriously, asking what love looks like when one partner literally cannot show their true self.

Published in 2024, Someone You Can Build a Nest In won the Nebula Award for Best Novel. Wiswell has written extensively in short fiction, often blending horror with unexpectedly tender perspectives on monstrous characters.

Discussion questions

  1. Shesheshen is a shapeshifting monster, and the novel takes her perspective and her feelings entirely seriously as the protagonist. How does Wiswell develop this — what does centring the 'monster' do to familiar horror narrative structures?
  2. Shesheshen falls for Homily, who has been sent to kill her. How does Wiswell develop this central irony — and does the romance work despite (or because of) this fundamental danger?
  3. The novel is both horror and romance — genres not often combined with this much sincerity toward both. How does Wiswell balance genuine horror elements with genuine romantic feeling?
  4. Hiding one's true nature from a partner is a common relationship anxiety, made literal here — Shesheshen literally cannot show Homily what she really is. How does Wiswell use this literalisation to explore something that resonates beyond the fantastical premise?
  5. Someone You Can Build a Nest In won the Nebula Award. What does it do that earns this recognition — and what does combining horror and romance with full commitment to both achieve that a more ironic treatment might not?

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Awards

Winner · The Nebula Award for Best Novel, 2025

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